Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Homeward Bound: Why Women are Embracing the New Domesticity by Emily Matchar


I've started reading Emily Matchar's "Homeward Bound: Why Women are Embracing the New Domesticity" with great interest - after all, I'm a woman, I've embraced old-fashioned domesticity, and my blogs celebrate my domestic skills (among other things). 

What I am finding interesting is the idea that women are tossing away financial independence for this so-called "New Domesticity" ... which is not my experience, nor is it the experience of the younger women I know who are also rediscovering old-school skills. In fact, I am the breadwinner of my little household - and I also bake my own bread, can tomatoes and other products, grow a garden, sew for pleasure and gifting, knit for practical reasons as well as for pleasure, and practice many other skills. 

I consider these skills a key feminine heritage from the various women who taught me: my grandmother, great-grandmother, aunts, and my mother. 

I feel I honor my great-grandmother every time I pick up my knitting needles, especially when I make something beautiful to give to someone else. I knit colorful cotton dishcloths on the subway - they are unique, decorative, immensely practical, and the very act of knitting them gives me a meditative escape during my commute. 

I honor my mother and my grandmother when I practice healthy, old-fashioned, frugal cookery skills - from making stock and broth to baking from scratch to making soups of "whatever is leftover" to freezing seasonal vegetables. Over the years, I have fed my family delicious meals bursting with nutrition - and I have not broken the bank to do so. I recently noted to hubs that I have made 10 meals thus far for the two of us from one small ham - and we still have ham stock and minced ham in the freezer!

I honor my aunt when I garden and preserve my produce - my aunt was an inspiration in my childhood, with her large garden and canning skills. Since my garden is necessarily small at this time, I purchase bulk tomatoes to can delicious sauce for FAR less cost than a questionable quality and less-tasty supermarket brand. I buy windfall apples by the bushel from the orchard in the fall and can applesauce, apple butter, and curried apple chutney. Again, so much tastier and CHEAPER than what I could get in the cheapest jars at the supermarket. 

I do what I do for a number of reasons, but the most important is that I feel that I should use my God-given skills to make my home as rich and as rewarding and as filled with love and comfort as possible. My carefully honed domestic skills allow us to live a lifestyle that exceeds our income without wasting our income. My skills allow me to spend my hard-earned cash as I best see fit, to have "nice things" without resorting to debt, and to save for a rainy day. I do not see how this in any way makes me "less than equal" to my husband, my son, my brothers, or any other man.

What skills do you use to create the life you want? Do you feel that embracing practical domestic skills makes you less-than-feminist? What about less-practical but beautiful domestic skills - like, say, decorative embroidery or fancy baking?

The Rhyme Bible: Storybook for Toddlers



“In the beginning,
God made the light.
The light was for day,
The dark was for night.”
 – The Rhyme Bible

The Rhyme Bible Storybook for Toddlers is a colorful sturdy padded cover board book with 10 tales from the Scriptures told in very simple "baby accessible" verse. Starting with Creation, running thru Noah and Jonah and Daniel and other well-loved Old Testament stories and then into the new Testament with the birth of Jesus, Loaves and Fishes, and more - this Bible provides a simple framework upon which one can start to build a child's faith and knowledge. Laurence Cleyet-Merle's illustrations are bright and engaging - and we were happy to note that Jesus was portrayed as a pleasantly attractive man with dark curls and medium complexion, rather than the blonde of my childhood. The Rhyme Bible Storybook for Toddlers is a preview to The Rhyme Bible Storybook, which is intended for older children.

I recommend The Rhyme Bible for parents who want a friendly, accessible way to start teaching simple Bible stories to very young children. I view each as a starting point...not as a complete "lesson" - but rather a way to introduce an idea and then explore further. I plan to use the title with my wee grandson when he is old enough to hold the book - to share the rhymes, and then talk about the deeper story and the deeper truths therein.

L. J. Sattgast has written a number of children's titles, including the Rhyme Bible Storybook, Teach me about God, Teach me about Jesus, and Steps to Jesus.


Laurence Cleyet-Merle is the highly talented European illustrator of a number of children's books including the Rhyme Bible Storybook, the Animal Stencil Book, Lemon the Duck, and The Nest.

The Rhyme Bible Storybook for Toddlers is published by Zondervan. It can be purchased for $9.99 directly from Zondervan, or at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or other fine booksellers.

Bible; Toddler/Child.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson through BookSneeze in exchange for an honest review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trace Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255 : "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Bringing in Spring

We've had sunshine and relatively warm (53F!!) temps this weekend...the snow cover on the back deck melted enough that we could shovel a path to the kitchen door (and open it for the first time in over a month!)...I've opened up my windows and aired out the house without causing frostbite....

All of this combined to create a raging case of Spring Fever...

Aren't these adorable! At Home Depot.
I bought some cute glazed planters and repotted some greens...


I was inspired to sew up some floral pillows...

 
I made tablescapes using natural items to remind me of long hikes in the woods...


and I walked and walked and walked all over my little town - soaking up fresh air and sunshine....

Snow still covers most of the ground, and the forecast calls for snow later this week...it may still be Winter, but I have Springtime in my heart!

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Book Review: The Adam Quest by Tim Spafford


“Interpretations surrounding the brute fact of evolution remain contentious, controversial, fractious, and acrimonious. Why should this be so? The heart of the problem, I believe, is to explain how it might be that we, a product of evolution, possess an overwhelming sense of purpose and moral identity yet arose by processes that were seemingly without meaning. If, however, we can begin to demonstrate that organic evolution contains deeper structures and potentialities, if not inevitabilities, then perhaps we can begin to move away from the dreary materialism of much current thinking with its agenda of a world now open to limitless manipulation.” – Dr. Simon Conway Morris, Cambridge University

The Adam Quest, by Tim Spafford, is an exploration of the evolution-creation debate – a study of a group of Christian scientists (each is a PhD with articles published in peer-reviewed journals) who endeavor to study the realm of human origins. Stafford profiles twelve scientists – eleven of whom fall into one of the three paradigms of Christian creation science: young earth creationism, intelligent design creationism, and evolutionary creationism, and one who is a scientist and a pastor and shares his views of how faith and science are meant to complement each other. Stafford carefully explains each creation paradigm, and then allows his scientist subjects to explain the science in their own words.

 The eleven scientists profiled are:

Young Earth Creationists: Kurt Wise, Todd Wood, Georgia Purdom
Intelligent Design Creationists: Michael Behe, Fazale Rana

Creation science is a very “hot” topic, and has been for a few decades now. Stafford douses the flames of rhetoric, and calmly lays out the science of each system. He shows the strengths and weaknesses (including lack of funding for proper studies, etc) of each scientist’s program. Stafford is always respectful, and brings a great deal of clarity to a subject often muddied with conflict and opinion.

"Today’s polarized environment produces less dialogue, more sound bites." - Tim Spafford

The first scientist profiled is geologist Kurt Wise, a young earth creationist and devout Baptist, who believes that, “I am not an anti-evolutionist. I am a creationist. My life goal is to create a model that explains the world.” While many in the secular world think of young earth creationists as “wacky” and “against science” and “ignorant,” Wise is actually Harvard-educated – he studied under the famous (or infamous) Stephen Jay Gould, and earned that man’s respect, if not his agreement.

The final of the eleven is biologist Simon Conway Morris of Cambridge University in England, a distinguished evolutionary creationist. Morris is controversial, he publicly argued with Stephen Jay Gould on his ideas of convergence (the observation that similar forms or traits often evolve in distinct families or lines of life forms – think of the similar spines on a hedgehog and a porcupine, yet their nearest common ancestor is a distant creature that lived in the time of the dinosaur – or the unique fingerprints that developed on humans and…koalas). Morris feels that the universe is constructed to evolve in a particular way, and that done over again would still create the same forms, leading to the inevitability of humans. 

Stafford adds a "bonus" profile: Rev. Dr. John Polkinghorne, a physicist who seamlessly married science with his deep faith. Polkinghorne was a distinguished physicist with Cambridge University, publishing many papers, and eventualy becoming President of Queen's College. And then, at the height of his career, he retired from academia to become an Anglican minister. His ministry brought him back to Cambridge, where he once again became President of Queen's College. Polkinghorne hold not part in the evolution-creation debates, but he does hold important views on the proper place of science in every Christian's life.

"People sometimes say that science is about facts and religion is simply about opinion, but that's to make a double mistake actually. There are no interesting scientific facts that are not already interpreted facts, and to interpret what's being measured, you have to use theoretical opinions. So there's a very subtle exchange between theory and experiment in science, which means its conclusions are never absolutely certain but well-justified. Similarly, religion isn't just a question of shutting your eyes, gritting your teeth, and believing impossible things on some unquestionable authority. It's also concerned with the search for truth through motivated belief, but it's a different level and kind of truth, and so it's motivations are a different kind of motivation. But I think, under the skin, science and religion are cousins in the search for truth." - John Polkinghorne

I went into this book assuming it was one thing and being delighted it was another. Stafford’s writing is clear and concise, he brings the scientists and their science to life in language understandable to the layman – and yet he doesn’t patronize or overly simplify the science into meaninglessness. At the conclusion of the book, Stafford expresses what he feels are the pros and cons of each of the three Christian creation systems, and where his personal belief falls on this range. He and I are in agreement on this, and yet his coverage of the scientists with very different views never fails to be respectful and non-judgmental.

I highly recommend The Adam Quest to anyone who truly wants to understand what the real debate is regarding Christianity, Science, and Creation – as opposed to what media pundits say it is. Whether one is a strict evolutionist or rather leans towards one of these creationist systems, whether one is of a Judeo-Christian or non-Christian religious leanings or atheist leanings, there is much to be learned from these scientists. The questions posed by each, as they work towards a more accurate science of life and creation, provoked a great deal of very thoughtful conversation in my house – and I know we will be adding the books written by these scientists to our reading list, for more in-depth reading about these systems and their possibilities.

Tim Spafford is a Senior Writer for Christianity Today, and is also the author of more than twenty fiction and non-fiction books
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The Adam Quest is published by Thomas Nelson Books.It can be purchased for $22.95 directly from Thomas Nelson, or at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or other fine booksellers.

Non-fiction, Science & Technology/General, teen to adult.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson through BookSneeze in exchange for an honest review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trace Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255 : "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

Friday, February 7, 2014

Weekend Reading, Feb 7 '14

More snow (yes...more!!!) predicted for this weekend! I guess is will cover up the foot or so of ice-encrusted frozen white stuff already on the ground...eek!

Ah well, as long as it doesn't interfere with my plans to attend a local celebration of the Beatles on Saturday night... 

When I'm not dancing around singing "Love me Do" this is what I'll be reading:

http://www.makeit-loveit.com/2014/01/chocolate-cracker-toffee-sweet-and-salty-yum.html
 
Ashley at Make It & Love It posted a recipe for Chocolate Cracker Toffee...and yes, I'm making it...cos...calories do not count when the thermometer reads below 20, right?

http://katespaperie.com/ideas_and_inspiration/category/inspirational_crafts/daisies/article/daisies

I'll be downloading a Paper Daisies Pattern from Kate's Paperie (swoon) and contemplating actually making them.


http://fromthehouseofedward.blogspot.com/2014/01/just-best-thing-ever-and-edward-movie.html






I'll catch up with an old favorite, Pamela at From the House of Edward.

http://theenchantedhome.blogspot.com/2014/02/my-newest-obession.html

And I'll visit a new-to-me blog, The Enchanted Home.

Have a fab weekend everyone!

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Midwinter Reverie


This winter is passing slowly...chill winds, softly drifting snow, grey-white skies...kettles of soup, pots of tea, warm scones...this winter is passing slowly, in its own time.

So often in the past few years, the winter weather has simply been an inconvenience...snow and ice just a reason to grumble and don boots and heavier layers as I rushed to the office, with train delays and miserable slushy subway platforms adding to the bleakness. I recall uncomfortable nights curled on an office sofa, knees bent, shivering under my coat - sleeping at the office so the snows wouldn't interfere with my work.

This winter has been so very different! I am working mostly from home, and when I am not at home I am in my local library or cafe...and my attitude towards the weather is no longer combative. I no longer grumble and worry about being stuck with soggy toes for 10 hours. I no longer check weather reports and determine if I can make it home and back. 

Now, I relish...

I delight in following puffs of soft snow with my eyes as they lazily drift down from white skies...

I shiver and wrap up in soft, warm shawls and sip steaming hot tea and anticipate walking in the woods to admire dark trees lined in silvery frost...

I listen to the muffled silence, the soft crunch of footsteps, the whispering wind...

I admire the ever so soft shadings of shell pink and pearl grey in the overcast skies...

I stand transfixed as strobes of white streak across the night skies, tossed in the winds, and flicker in our house light...

This winter is passing slowly...it is now only early February, and we have had numerous snowfalls and below-freezing evenings...and numerous cracking fires and pots of tea. I say time is passing slowly, but I think it is really that I have simply slowed down to enjoy its pace, to live within an older, bigger rhythm.